Are Men Sexually-Driven?
Are Men Sexually-Driven?
"What makes a man pleased?" is a question I discovered in a happiness and physical fitness online forum.
About 30 reacted. Their answers were sorted out and set up according to commonality. Here are the first 4:
Sex;
Women they enjoy, respect and agree;
Beer;
Feelings of machismo.
It's challenging to argue about "Sex" in the top of the list on what makes a Guy delighted. In fact it supports an article written by Dr. David Delvin, GP and family planning professional, which asserts that males are sexually driven.
What makes their responses very interesting is the sexual connation of the next best three.
Consider these:
- Women they love, regard and agree:
This can drive a male's desire for sex or be felt just after having a good one.
- Beer:
When men take a seat together for beer, they don't play cards. They talk of a lot of things. Whatever they are, nevertheless, talk will ultimately zero in on women and sex.
If they do play cards, they will be fixated on the Queen.
- Sensations of machismo:
Is there a better way of revealing this than by having sex with women? Lots and great deals of women! The more women, the more macho Man feels.
Am I checking out between the lines? Hardly! Experience informs me that I am not way off the mark.
So why are guys so preoccupied with sex?
You ask a panda why it likes to eat bamboo shoots or a koala bear, young leaves of eucalyptus trees.
Their responses will be the same - to make it through.
To make it through, Male needs to have sex, not consume bamboo shoots or eucalypts leaves. Nature set Him for sex so he can produce children; to expand the tribe. 'There is strength in numbers' is a truism that pertained to him early on.
It does make a perfectly sound factor for the primitive Male. Life was hard. He needed help to farm, to hunt, to carve out a home from caves. He has to have a big tribe to safeguard himself from other tribes or other predators.
It is an alibi for the modern Male.
Modern male doesn't sow and reap, does not hunt, does not reside in caverns, has no natural predators and prefers to keep a space from other men. Life now has never ever been simpler. Everything we find in the markets or grocery stalls are meant to make Male's life simple and safe.
Yet he is still sexually-driven. In fact he is more so than his primitive cousins. He was been by doing this since he first understood that there was a reason and function for his erection.
Why? I can venture the following ideas:
First - Natural development:
Similar to the progression in Marlowe's hierarchy of requirements, Male has actually advanced from the need to endure to the need to "make a statement."
You can see it by his need to have an effective career, new automobile, signature clothes, fat incomes, yearly vacation, club memberships, lovely women on top of a beautiful other half and family, etc
. And each statement is stressed with "SEX.".
Second - Paradigm shift amongst women:.
From a lowly and insignificant part of society charged to take care of the house and bear children, they, too, have advanced into something totally different from their primitive equivalents.
Now they are career-driven. They want to have a say in the house and to take their own destinies. They wish to be able to support themselves instead of be dependent on their husbands.
They are making a declaration, too, in a completely different way.
They gorge on dieting programs and regular gym to establish libido-inciting bodies, use clothes that can make a man's jaws drop as if hit by a wild haymaker, underwear to display a cleavage so deep it can drown a male with desire, scents that can make a male drool, cosmetics than can change her to a woman, guy will happily lose and equip or a leg for, or a household for that matter.
Third - Mindset modification towards sex:.
What was taboo then, is generally accepted, albeit, with discretion, now.
Both males and female these days take consensual and one-night stand as an "add-on" to any social or expert interaction. Just like an app to a mobile - good to have though not extremely needed.
Man's sexual hunger, as soon as driven by the need to survive is now driven by the need to please the senses, if not the ego. And there are no signs of its subsiding.
Thankfully for man, "sex" is a need the supply of which will always far exceed the need. Otherwise, it would not be a long action before we go back to being primitive again.
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